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Sunday, January 25, 2009

Goals

I've been thinking lately about goals and success... I think that there actually might be more of a correlation between the two than I previously gave them credit for. I've been living too many of my days just taking life as it comes to me, and while I don't think this is necessarily bad, it breeds too much complacency and maybe even depression because I have nothing to really work for or look forward to. That is one main reasons goals are good. They allow us to continue to improve ourselves and help build our self-esteem as we accomplish each one. It can sort of act like perpetual motivation once you start and accomplish the first few. We end up accomplishing much more. And I'm not even talking major goals...even small ones like doing something small that's been on my list for months that I haven't done just because I've never set time apart for them.
(As a disclaimer to anybody I live near, my mission president once told me that as a leader, it was okay to teach the right things to do as long as we know they are right, we shouldn't not teach something that is right just because we may not be implementing our own teachings. In other words, I feel that goals are something I should do and set for myself and I shouldn't feel like a hypocrite if I don't always do them. )

2 comments:

Stephanie B said...

Growing up in our house you set goals every year. Its now something that I really looked forward to. Lauren even set some goals this year like to make cookies for friends and brushing her teeth. Aw, the simplicity of youth.

Three Men and a Lady (plus a baby) said...

Brushing teeth steph? Heck, that's on my goal list!
I LOVE goals and am so happy to hear tha you my love are starting to think they are good too.